Erm, I am pretty tired so I will make today's post into a question and answer.
Q: Does your blog post refers to everyone in your class?
A: Nope. Some people only.
Q: How are you feeling now?
A: Let's see.... Uncomfortable? Restricted?
Q: Do ever quarrel with your friends?
A: Sometimes... But I would say sorry after that and we will patch up.
Q: If people say things about your friends, would you believe them?
A: Nope, I will ask my friend and check with others. Kind of a small scale investigation. Hoping to clear them name.
Q: Do you ever whack ladies/girl/woman as in fighting or hurt her?
A: Nope.
Q: Do you trust friends?
A: Yes 100%, why not?
Q: Are you 'whacking' your friend to bully them?
A: My 'whacking' is usually friendly but sometimes it is harsh. But generally, it is friendly. I have stopped recently. Now, I only do with PS people like HX who understands it.
Q: Why do you sit with the PS people when there is lecture combined with them?
A: Ask Lidya, she is my 'brother' who understands me.
Q: If there is any chance of patching things up, would you do it?
A: Yes, I would. I will never (ever x 10 to the infinite) want to lose a friend unless the situation is really bad.
Q: What do you mean by united class?
A: Never mind, that idea is being screwed. I only go for peace.
*End of Q&A*
13 May 2010
Recently, one of my classmate asked me this question about which of the 3 main groups in my class I am supporting. I did not replied her. But the answer is very simple. I am not supporting any of the three group. A decent class being divided into 3 main group, it is fine as long as the class remain united. But I don't really see it. Politics in class does not support that the class is united. Generally, I feel that the guys have not much problem with it. Neither am I saying the girls have problem. Now the class like people from gangster, divided into 3 main group. What a joke. People I can get along with, I will try to maintain. I will try to know the people who I have not made friends with.
A factor in friendship I keep is trust. No matter what others may say, I still trust my friend unless I see it for myself. Trust does not only applies to this example. I trust my friend will not say anything behind my back as I will do not do so. The moment I hear my friends saying behind my back, it is not anger that comes but sadness. The friend I talk with, believe in, work with, just say things behind my back. This really break things up. If there is something you not happy with me, just talk it out with me. Just cut things short and simple. Why bother beat around the bush? Isn't talking face to face much more simple than beating-around-the-bush just to achieve something. I may make mistakes cause I am not perfect. I still have lots to learn. I don't mind people coming to say, 'Hey Wei Keat, I feel that you need to change your attitude because....' No, seriously I don't mind as long as you provide a reason for it and I will change it. If they have no trust in me, I WILL END THE FRIENDSHIP RIGHT ON THE SPOT. Simple as that. Reason? Simple, if there is no trust, would that person keep doubting you? Would that person keep checking on you? Would you feel restricted because he/she is like keeping his/her eyes on you? Strictly speaking, I will not tolerate people who don't trust.
My 'whacking' people suppose to be 'friendly' become 'violent/bully/aggressive'. There is even some worse words used on my action. Fine, I just be a freaking dummy in campus. When with you guys, I also be a dummy. Speak when spoken to. Is this what you want? Sure, I can be that. It is very fortunate for me to have friends that still with me despite some 'influence'. I am not saying that others are not my friends, they are the 'better friends' I had in campus. So much misunderstanding... Guess I just stfu and do my own things.
A factor in friendship I keep is trust. No matter what others may say, I still trust my friend unless I see it for myself. Trust does not only applies to this example. I trust my friend will not say anything behind my back as I will do not do so. The moment I hear my friends saying behind my back, it is not anger that comes but sadness. The friend I talk with, believe in, work with, just say things behind my back. This really break things up. If there is something you not happy with me, just talk it out with me. Just cut things short and simple. Why bother beat around the bush? Isn't talking face to face much more simple than beating-around-the-bush just to achieve something. I may make mistakes cause I am not perfect. I still have lots to learn. I don't mind people coming to say, 'Hey Wei Keat, I feel that you need to change your attitude because....' No, seriously I don't mind as long as you provide a reason for it and I will change it. If they have no trust in me, I WILL END THE FRIENDSHIP RIGHT ON THE SPOT. Simple as that. Reason? Simple, if there is no trust, would that person keep doubting you? Would that person keep checking on you? Would you feel restricted because he/she is like keeping his/her eyes on you? Strictly speaking, I will not tolerate people who don't trust.
My 'whacking' people suppose to be 'friendly' become 'violent/bully/aggressive'. There is even some worse words used on my action. Fine, I just be a freaking dummy in campus. When with you guys, I also be a dummy. Speak when spoken to. Is this what you want? Sure, I can be that. It is very fortunate for me to have friends that still with me despite some 'influence'. I am not saying that others are not my friends, they are the 'better friends' I had in campus. So much misunderstanding... Guess I just stfu and do my own things.
11 May 2010
It has been awhile since the last time I actually blog. Really long time. New semesters starts and projects are already in progress. Recently, I think there have been cases of misunderstanding or issues towards me. But I don't really care. Why? Reason is simple, I rather focus on work than these kind of issue. It is just waste of time. Time spent on these issue might allow me to do more things with my project and lab reports. Beside, the world does not stop revolving if I lose that friend. Life still have to go on. People may say things behind my back but I have no fear for my conscious is clear. It is their mouth to say things behind me. I can't stop them, so I just let them be. If I lose 5 or more friends, I'm fine because I have been through a period when I do not have a single friend. They want to cut me off, I'm fine. I won't die because of no friends. So in future, if anyone want to cut off me, just say so in front of me. I'm alright with it. Tsk tsk... politics in campus. The style has no change at all. I shan't waste my time, for those who want to avoid me, just go ahead. I'm not wasting my time on you =)
16 Mar 2010
Just came back from the stock take, I had a short of rest. QQ is dead. It died last night when I was working. I had expected that this day had come. At least, it is not suffering anymore. I really hate that person who threw QQ in the open and leave it to die. At least take care of it till it died... My mum tried to reach me but I was rather busy at work. I guess I end here since I do not have much mood to type anything else.
26 Feb 2010
As usual, I blog about QQ (name of the hamster that I found). I observed that it is starting to get weaker. Sometimes, it even kind of in a daze with it's stomach facing up. Condition does not look too good for QQ. Also, I would like to say thanks to my friends who offered to bring it to a vet. I was thinking to share cost with someone because my Minister of Finance (my mum) disagree that I should bring it to a vet since it may die sooner or later. I understand her point of view. Still, I spoke to her about splitting the cost and she seems to have no objection.... If you wondering what is QQ doing right now, usual stuff like jumping up in attempt to get out of the box and scratching itself. Not to mention, curling of itself. Sometimes, it jumped till it's stomach facing up...
25 Feb 2010
Yo people, I am back to blog just a short while. Taking a break from studies. First to blog about is QQ. I noticed that it wants to be free as it keep jumping up and down in the box in attempt to escape I guess. Also, it chewed up the corner of the newspaper which I used it for bedding. Does hamsters have this behavior or is it just only QQ? Some photos of it... One photos appears to be that QQ is curious with my handphone's camera. Laugh out loud.
Now about me, I finally submitted my cadet officer course form. WOOT! I seen the Director. He seems to be a nice person. His assistant is also a nice person as well. From the Director, it seems that I am not the first one who need his endorsement. Hmmm, if that's the case, I wonder why NYP don't have NCC as one of the CCA. I do see NPCC is one of them. Never mind, at least i submitted the form, just that short of O Level Certificate and NAFA certificate. Oh well, I submit to them after my test is over =D. Cya guys around and take care
24 Feb 2010
Last night, my friend, Jin Xuan, asked me what is the name of the hamster. I replied her that I did not give it a name. So on the spot, I thought of a name, 'QQ'. Laugh out loud, what a name for a hamster. As usual, QQ still running around in the box, trying to look for a way to get out of the box. Just curious, does hamster drink water at all? Cause QQ has not been drinking water for about 1 and a half days already. So I am not sure if that is ok but I do know living things need water. I also notice one thing, QQ sometimes would just sit at a corner and start to 'emo'. How cute is that?
Back to me, I don't think anyone would be interest. Semester exam. 5 papers, 2 down and 3 to go. Next Tuesday is the last paper. WOOT. FREEDOM! I finally can have a good rest after next Tuesday. I was pretty busy as I have to get the Director of School of Chemical & Life Science (LS) to sign my form. I got the call from Ms Tan and I went to secondary school to take the form. I rushed to NYP to look for the Director of NYP to sign my form. I hand the form over to the Student Administration Office and headed back home. One hour later, I received a call from the Student Administration Office saying that I need to submit to the School of Chemical & Life Science Administration Office. Once again, I went back to NYP again. Bad news, the Administration Office at School of Chemical & Life Science was closed due to some event. Guess have to come back tomorrow. Sigh... All well. Hopefully I can get it sign by tomorrow as tomorrow is the deadline.
Back to me, I don't think anyone would be interest. Semester exam. 5 papers, 2 down and 3 to go. Next Tuesday is the last paper. WOOT. FREEDOM! I finally can have a good rest after next Tuesday. I was pretty busy as I have to get the Director of School of Chemical & Life Science (LS) to sign my form. I got the call from Ms Tan and I went to secondary school to take the form. I rushed to NYP to look for the Director of NYP to sign my form. I hand the form over to the Student Administration Office and headed back home. One hour later, I received a call from the Student Administration Office saying that I need to submit to the School of Chemical & Life Science Administration Office. Once again, I went back to NYP again. Bad news, the Administration Office at School of Chemical & Life Science was closed due to some event. Guess have to come back tomorrow. Sigh... All well. Hopefully I can get it sign by tomorrow as tomorrow is the deadline.
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