I had been to the Singapore Navy Open House today. Well, the weather is hot but it didn't rain so there is a balance. As usual, there is the frigate and other ship. I boarded the frigate and seen the facilities. The clique saw there is a submarine and decided to visit it. But it was not open to public. What a waste. It will be so cool to actually board on a submarine. After the frigate, most of the people were resting under a shelter with cooler fans. Actually, I didn't want to move much due to the weather. The visit to Navy was not so fun. I still prefer to SAFTI which is more fun. I remembered during sec 4, my class went to SAFTI. There were paintball game, tank display, living firing range shooting and more. So much activities for the people to take part.
After the visit, the clique went to Changi Village and had dinner. Followed after that, we took a stroll at Changi Coastal Walk. I'm not sure of the name. It was rather relaxing walking along the bench. Listen to the wave beating against the sand... Tsz Ting was there picking up seashells. This reminds me of when I was young. I think I was still kindergarden. One of my room is rented out, the tenant was a lady. I used to call her Jie Jie which is sister in Chinese. There is once I was playing with her a board game and I saw a seashell that is in rainbow color. I was interested and asked her how did she get it. She told me that she actually painted it. She teached me how to paint it. She was a nice person which I wish she was my elder sister. She did gave me one shell that she painted it and gave me. Right now, I have no idea where it is. Sigh... How I wished I treasure it properly. Still, I had fun. Thanks clique =)
15 May 2010
Let me start this post back to the date when my colleagues found the 2 hamster. This is purely memory-based and there might be still details that I might have missed out. This is the general situation. After the 2 hamster was found, I contacted classmate A and asked if he can keep it. He replied that he will have to see the hamsters and I replied okay. So I asked around if anyone have a cage first to let these 2 to have a proper cage which classmate B have and lent me for awhile. Classmate A saw the hamster and I asked again if he is interested. He replied, 'I anything de, I'm ok with it.' So I hesitated as his answer was not a firm answer plus my colleague A wanted to keep the hamster. So I replied, ' I get back to you asap.' After that, I checked with my colleague A and found out that he is keen to keep it. As he was a first -timer, I was worried. I didn't want the hamster to suffer. In order to ensure the safety of the hamster and let my colleague keep, I decided to give one to classmate A and one to my colleague A. I talked to him during marketing tutorial. He replied, ' Huh, don't want la. Don't separate them la. Why don't you keep instead?' So I agreed and kept both of them.
The day that i got the classmate B's cage, I got my colleague B's cage at the night. So I have 2 cages. My intention of having 2 cages is to separate the hamsters if they are fighting and NOT to see both the hamster fighting. At the same time, it increases the area which the hamsters can freely roam around. As I heard that hamsters sometimes fight quite violently, so I decided to have some precaution first before both hamster died of fighting each other. But unfortunately, classmate B send a text to me saying that he wanted to take back the cage. He did not state reason. At first, I thought something is wrong but then again, he is my friend so I didn't question much about it. I thought that he might be getting a new hamster. That morning, I was playing soccer with the guys in my class. After that, I went back to get the cage as I forgot in the morning. Soon after, the cage was returned.
Back to the recent, I learnt that someone saying that I break promise. He claims that I promised to give him the hamsters and in the end I backed out the idea of giving him the hamsters. Even worse, he also said that the aim of having 2 cages is to see both the hamster fighting each other to their death which is not true.
What a huge misunderstanding to clear up. It is so not gonna be easy... Taking a step at a time...
The day that i got the classmate B's cage, I got my colleague B's cage at the night. So I have 2 cages. My intention of having 2 cages is to separate the hamsters if they are fighting and NOT to see both the hamster fighting. At the same time, it increases the area which the hamsters can freely roam around. As I heard that hamsters sometimes fight quite violently, so I decided to have some precaution first before both hamster died of fighting each other. But unfortunately, classmate B send a text to me saying that he wanted to take back the cage. He did not state reason. At first, I thought something is wrong but then again, he is my friend so I didn't question much about it. I thought that he might be getting a new hamster. That morning, I was playing soccer with the guys in my class. After that, I went back to get the cage as I forgot in the morning. Soon after, the cage was returned.
Back to the recent, I learnt that someone saying that I break promise. He claims that I promised to give him the hamsters and in the end I backed out the idea of giving him the hamsters. Even worse, he also said that the aim of having 2 cages is to see both the hamster fighting each other to their death which is not true.
What a huge misunderstanding to clear up. It is so not gonna be easy... Taking a step at a time...
14 May 2010
Erm, I am pretty tired so I will make today's post into a question and answer.
Q: Does your blog post refers to everyone in your class?
A: Nope. Some people only.
Q: How are you feeling now?
A: Let's see.... Uncomfortable? Restricted?
Q: Do ever quarrel with your friends?
A: Sometimes... But I would say sorry after that and we will patch up.
Q: If people say things about your friends, would you believe them?
A: Nope, I will ask my friend and check with others. Kind of a small scale investigation. Hoping to clear them name.
Q: Do you ever whack ladies/girl/woman as in fighting or hurt her?
A: Nope.
Q: Do you trust friends?
A: Yes 100%, why not?
Q: Are you 'whacking' your friend to bully them?
A: My 'whacking' is usually friendly but sometimes it is harsh. But generally, it is friendly. I have stopped recently. Now, I only do with PS people like HX who understands it.
Q: Why do you sit with the PS people when there is lecture combined with them?
A: Ask Lidya, she is my 'brother' who understands me.
Q: If there is any chance of patching things up, would you do it?
A: Yes, I would. I will never (ever x 10 to the infinite) want to lose a friend unless the situation is really bad.
Q: What do you mean by united class?
A: Never mind, that idea is being screwed. I only go for peace.
*End of Q&A*
Q: Does your blog post refers to everyone in your class?
A: Nope. Some people only.
Q: How are you feeling now?
A: Let's see.... Uncomfortable? Restricted?
Q: Do ever quarrel with your friends?
A: Sometimes... But I would say sorry after that and we will patch up.
Q: If people say things about your friends, would you believe them?
A: Nope, I will ask my friend and check with others. Kind of a small scale investigation. Hoping to clear them name.
Q: Do you ever whack ladies/girl/woman as in fighting or hurt her?
A: Nope.
Q: Do you trust friends?
A: Yes 100%, why not?
Q: Are you 'whacking' your friend to bully them?
A: My 'whacking' is usually friendly but sometimes it is harsh. But generally, it is friendly. I have stopped recently. Now, I only do with PS people like HX who understands it.
Q: Why do you sit with the PS people when there is lecture combined with them?
A: Ask Lidya, she is my 'brother' who understands me.
Q: If there is any chance of patching things up, would you do it?
A: Yes, I would. I will never (ever x 10 to the infinite) want to lose a friend unless the situation is really bad.
Q: What do you mean by united class?
A: Never mind, that idea is being screwed. I only go for peace.
*End of Q&A*
13 May 2010
Recently, one of my classmate asked me this question about which of the 3 main groups in my class I am supporting. I did not replied her. But the answer is very simple. I am not supporting any of the three group. A decent class being divided into 3 main group, it is fine as long as the class remain united. But I don't really see it. Politics in class does not support that the class is united. Generally, I feel that the guys have not much problem with it. Neither am I saying the girls have problem. Now the class like people from gangster, divided into 3 main group. What a joke. People I can get along with, I will try to maintain. I will try to know the people who I have not made friends with.
A factor in friendship I keep is trust. No matter what others may say, I still trust my friend unless I see it for myself. Trust does not only applies to this example. I trust my friend will not say anything behind my back as I will do not do so. The moment I hear my friends saying behind my back, it is not anger that comes but sadness. The friend I talk with, believe in, work with, just say things behind my back. This really break things up. If there is something you not happy with me, just talk it out with me. Just cut things short and simple. Why bother beat around the bush? Isn't talking face to face much more simple than beating-around-the-bush just to achieve something. I may make mistakes cause I am not perfect. I still have lots to learn. I don't mind people coming to say, 'Hey Wei Keat, I feel that you need to change your attitude because....' No, seriously I don't mind as long as you provide a reason for it and I will change it. If they have no trust in me, I WILL END THE FRIENDSHIP RIGHT ON THE SPOT. Simple as that. Reason? Simple, if there is no trust, would that person keep doubting you? Would that person keep checking on you? Would you feel restricted because he/she is like keeping his/her eyes on you? Strictly speaking, I will not tolerate people who don't trust.
My 'whacking' people suppose to be 'friendly' become 'violent/bully/aggressive'. There is even some worse words used on my action. Fine, I just be a freaking dummy in campus. When with you guys, I also be a dummy. Speak when spoken to. Is this what you want? Sure, I can be that. It is very fortunate for me to have friends that still with me despite some 'influence'. I am not saying that others are not my friends, they are the 'better friends' I had in campus. So much misunderstanding... Guess I just stfu and do my own things.
A factor in friendship I keep is trust. No matter what others may say, I still trust my friend unless I see it for myself. Trust does not only applies to this example. I trust my friend will not say anything behind my back as I will do not do so. The moment I hear my friends saying behind my back, it is not anger that comes but sadness. The friend I talk with, believe in, work with, just say things behind my back. This really break things up. If there is something you not happy with me, just talk it out with me. Just cut things short and simple. Why bother beat around the bush? Isn't talking face to face much more simple than beating-around-the-bush just to achieve something. I may make mistakes cause I am not perfect. I still have lots to learn. I don't mind people coming to say, 'Hey Wei Keat, I feel that you need to change your attitude because....' No, seriously I don't mind as long as you provide a reason for it and I will change it. If they have no trust in me, I WILL END THE FRIENDSHIP RIGHT ON THE SPOT. Simple as that. Reason? Simple, if there is no trust, would that person keep doubting you? Would that person keep checking on you? Would you feel restricted because he/she is like keeping his/her eyes on you? Strictly speaking, I will not tolerate people who don't trust.
My 'whacking' people suppose to be 'friendly' become 'violent/bully/aggressive'. There is even some worse words used on my action. Fine, I just be a freaking dummy in campus. When with you guys, I also be a dummy. Speak when spoken to. Is this what you want? Sure, I can be that. It is very fortunate for me to have friends that still with me despite some 'influence'. I am not saying that others are not my friends, they are the 'better friends' I had in campus. So much misunderstanding... Guess I just stfu and do my own things.
11 May 2010
It has been awhile since the last time I actually blog. Really long time. New semesters starts and projects are already in progress. Recently, I think there have been cases of misunderstanding or issues towards me. But I don't really care. Why? Reason is simple, I rather focus on work than these kind of issue. It is just waste of time. Time spent on these issue might allow me to do more things with my project and lab reports. Beside, the world does not stop revolving if I lose that friend. Life still have to go on. People may say things behind my back but I have no fear for my conscious is clear. It is their mouth to say things behind me. I can't stop them, so I just let them be. If I lose 5 or more friends, I'm fine because I have been through a period when I do not have a single friend. They want to cut me off, I'm fine. I won't die because of no friends. So in future, if anyone want to cut off me, just say so in front of me. I'm alright with it. Tsk tsk... politics in campus. The style has no change at all. I shan't waste my time, for those who want to avoid me, just go ahead. I'm not wasting my time on you =)
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