Recently, one of my classmate asked me this question about which of the 3 main groups in my class I am supporting. I did not replied her. But the answer is very simple. I am not supporting any of the three group. A decent class being divided into 3 main group, it is fine as long as the class remain united. But I don't really see it. Politics in class does not support that the class is united. Generally, I feel that the guys have not much problem with it. Neither am I saying the girls have problem. Now the class like people from gangster, divided into 3 main group. What a joke. People I can get along with, I will try to maintain. I will try to know the people who I have not made friends with.
A factor in friendship I keep is trust. No matter what others may say, I still trust my friend unless I see it for myself. Trust does not only applies to this example. I trust my friend will not say anything behind my back as I will do not do so. The moment I hear my friends saying behind my back, it is not anger that comes but sadness. The friend I talk with, believe in, work with, just say things behind my back. This really break things up. If there is something you not happy with me, just talk it out with me. Just cut things short and simple. Why bother beat around the bush? Isn't talking face to face much more simple than beating-around-the-bush just to achieve something. I may make mistakes cause I am not perfect. I still have lots to learn. I don't mind people coming to say, 'Hey Wei Keat, I feel that you need to change your attitude because....' No, seriously I don't mind as long as you provide a reason for it and I will change it. If they have no trust in me, I WILL END THE FRIENDSHIP RIGHT ON THE SPOT. Simple as that. Reason? Simple, if there is no trust, would that person keep doubting you? Would that person keep checking on you? Would you feel restricted because he/she is like keeping his/her eyes on you? Strictly speaking, I will not tolerate people who don't trust.
My 'whacking' people suppose to be 'friendly' become 'violent/bully/aggressive'. There is even some worse words used on my action. Fine, I just be a freaking dummy in campus. When with you guys, I also be a dummy. Speak when spoken to. Is this what you want? Sure, I can be that. It is very fortunate for me to have friends that still with me despite some 'influence'. I am not saying that others are not my friends, they are the 'better friends' I had in campus. So much misunderstanding... Guess I just stfu and do my own things.